Before you start, I know it’s been a while and for that I apologize. I’ve had much going on in my life that I’ve wanted to bring to you but because of the subject matter I’ve been keeping under wraps. Don’t worry I’ll bring you all up to speed later. Now for the Feature Presentation…

As for the cracks in the armor, what I mean is how long into a new relationship do you show your insecurities? For me, I think they are part and parcel intrinsic to my being, along with my many strengths. (Yeah, I like myself.) I know many schools of thought on being a man say that you keep it zipped. Never be “weak”. When a woman sees weakness she loses interest. That may well be although I like to hope not. I’m a pretty strong guy physically and emotionally. I’m just as comfortable with teaching someone a lesson as I am with lifting the weight of my own, or a loved ones, personal world. But I do have a soft side that I’m never afraid to express. That’s just the way I am. If someone is turned off by it, NMP! Then they’re not the one for me.

The reason I bring this subject up is that I know a lot of people getting out of a long relationship want to feel loved, to feel worth or they just may be tired of being alone.   I’m not lonely and know I’m worth everything this life has to offer. It took me a while to get here but here I am. Now I’m in a new relationship (SPOILER!!!) and have already shown a crack or two (Even jealousy. That’s a new one for me.) and I’m good with that. I’m pretty sure she is too. Here’s to hoping anyway!

That said what do you think? When is it good, if ever, to show those “cracks in your armor”?