Ok, so I went out with MB this past weekend and I just can’t get stressing about her out of my brain. I know how you’re supposed to be “It’s no big deal” and all that. It actually isn’t a big deal but I have that nagging “Does she like me?”, “What if she doesn’t like me?” rigamarole going through my head. I know I’m not supposed to give a shit. “If she likes me, cool. If not, her loss.” type of thoughts should be going on. But nooooooo!

Now I know I’m not the only person to have this problem. Even the calm & cool people have this in them somewhere. So my question is: How does one detach? I’m a “heart on my sleeve” type of guy. How do I learn not to care? How do I separate what I think from how I feel? I gotta tell ya, if I don’t, it’s gonna make the rest of this life really long.