Well, I am experiencing something for the first time in memory tonight, rejection. It’s a very odd sensation. I never really thought about it but I guess I don’t get told ‘no’ very often, for whatever reason. Maybe I’m relatively good at what I am doing or maybe I always have had a good sense of timing when asking for… whatever. Now ,mind you, this is in my personal life where many things are new to me again but this can and does transfer to other aspects of life as well. After taking the rest of my personal experience into account, I guess my question to you is this: Now what? How do you get back up? How do you do it again? Do you try the same thing at a different point? So many questions, I know. What are your answers?

I’d say don’t dwell on it. It’s just one woman. And “NO”, as I used to tell the folks at retreats where I gave seminars on “meeting folks”, is NOT a reflection of who you are. NO can mean a lot of things that have NOTHING to do with you. So don’t take it personally.
Alternatively you could handle your personal disappoints like I do . . .KILL GNOMES in WoW. Bwahahaha.